I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love. ~ Sex & the city
I was browsing through my friend's multiply site and found this quote on her homepage. Aaah. Passion. Isn't it so great? Something that cannot be faked or replicated and yet when we have it - we spur its existence for making us feel miserable for every little disappointment. But when it's gone, you miss it inexplicably to a fault. Catching up with the girls last night, sad to say we still can't avoid talking about other people. At least not about crucifying opinions but more like news reporting. More and more of our friends have actually started saying - yeah we fight nowadays. All I can think of is...so what?!! No one likes to fight but it is a fact of life. When you and your partner are in a passionate situation, you will argue. And simply because you are not the same person and you will always find things you don't agree on. That's what makes you two different individuals. If you find yourself not fighting or arguing about anything and you just go on about each day like it was a routine, THEN you have a problem. Because now you fail to even care.
But no public displays of violence please. I said it's ok to argue. Not throw a hissy fit and crack bones over some menial disagreement of opinion.
my bf is a generally 'jolly' person and people see us happy all the time - that they wonder if we EVER fight... and i always say that WE DO. Of course, WE DO.
i really find it hypocritical when people think it's a 'perfect' relationship when they've never ever had a fight. are they serious? that just means that they don't even care enough to disagree, or even to argue. isn't that what passion is partly about? :)
This is my world. This is who I am. And I'm not gonna give up myself to make your life better. And you want me to change. I can't get used to
all you want me to be and I just can't pretend to be anyone else 'cause it's not really me. - Darius Rucker
i agree. :)
my bf is a generally 'jolly' person and people see us happy all the time - that they wonder if we EVER fight... and i always say that WE DO. Of course, WE DO.
i really find it hypocritical when people think it's a 'perfect' relationship when they've never ever had a fight. are they serious? that just means that they don't even care enough to disagree, or even to argue. isn't that what passion is partly about? :)